Thursday, November 11, 2010

On a beach in Jamaica!

Well its been a long time since I wrote last. Its fall of 2010 and I have had quite a year. After returning from the trip to Africa I proposed to the love of my life Akta on August 28th at beacon grill where we met in August of 2007. After lots of drama and ups and downs...we had a magnificent wedding in Vieques Puerto Rico at the brand new W spa and retreat. In fact we were the first couple to ever get married there. It was on June 5th 2010. So why all this history...well it sets the stage for why we are in Jamaica...we are on our honeymoon! Specifically we are at the Sandals grande ohco rios. Its a great place. After some issues with our room, everything has been great. The service is great, drinks good, weather great (well very nice!) and food pretty good. Main issue is that the veggie food is not as good as it could be, but its ok. Funny last year I was at an orphanage but this year I'm as far from that as I could be...definately enjoying my good fortune in life. The people are very nice and do anything to help much like those we met in Africa.

I can't say that I have lots of deep thoughts here. It is all about relaxing and rejuvenation. Work has been quite tough with becoming a manager, running firedrills, a layoff, and now a new tech lead role. All the while doing the people engagement and product improvement that I took the job for in the first place! Its all been a great learning experience just tiring. I feel great being on the beach though and ready to get back to it next week.

Getting married has been great. Wouldn't trade it for anything but it has definately been trying between family issues, finances, making hopes and dreams reality (real fireworks at the wedding!). We now live in the elkridge condo and are enjoying married life. We will get into a groove once we get back. It will be nice!

So its been a great year...lots of changes and lots of learning. Akta and I are enjoying being together and look forward to a great future!
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Sunday, July 05, 2009

Sunday Morning News

7/5/09
I'm sitting out on the deck here at the hostel reading the sunday Washington Post on my phone...in Kikuyu, Kenya...what a world.

Last night, I had dinner with a Kenyan named Robin. He is a police officer and a nurse, and he was visitng a friend who works at the hospital here. We chatted a bit, watched the news...we he understood, and I looked at the pictures, since it was in Kiswahili. Then a show came on, that was "U Can Dance" which was a best kenyan dance duo competition. Interesting.

In the morning, I met some folks from San Diego who are here helping to finish a church they raised money for. There was also a group of students...civil engineers who were helping to build a school, and a teacher helping to establish primary education. They were from Northern Ireland. Its very interesting, Christianity is wide spread here, and there are many people coming to help through their churches. Inspiring.

So I'm just going hang out, read, and relax, until 230, when I'll go to the orphanage before heading back to the US. I'm excited to go home...I'm sure when I get to work on Tuesday, I'll think about being on Safari the week before!


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Saturday, July 04, 2009

July 4th in Kenya

7/4/09
J and B had told us of some missionary friends who where having a 4th party. They invited us along with the kids. It was so much fun, we had a bbq in Kenya! We played games with the kids and met lots of people there. Many were on missions with a variety of different activities in the area. Working to improve slums, setup rural businesses, agro co-op's, helping ease racial tensions. Quite a great variety of folks. Micheal and Rebecca are 23 year old missionaries from Missouri. They are working with the anglican chruch to develop the agro co-op's. They are lucky to be house sitting for the owners of a bueatiful house...which facilitated the bbq. I made some contacts with people who maybe I can work with in the future. Everyone was so nice and welcoming. One thing that I learned was that there is tension between south asians and africans. Its basically about how they view each other...indians seem to be all about $, and africans seem to be lazy. There was a few members of a group who is helping to ease this.

Sadly, Anna and Karen went off to Kisumu. We have had so much fun. I had never traveled with Anna and just met Karen last week, but we had nothing but fun together. It was a great experience, and I got to learn so much from them too.

So I've been sitting here for an hour getting the blogging up to date. Amazing my phone works here at the hostel. My view from the deck here is of greenery of all types. There are lawns, and trees, and a garden. Other buildings of the hospital are around too. Birds are chirping away. I can hear what I think are church services off in the distance....very peaceful here! Ok, getting chilly, so I will go in and read...have dinner and just chill out. I'm going to the orphanage tomorrow at 230pm, and then to J and B's for dinner...and then the airport! See you all soon!
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Kikuyu and Nairobi

7/3/09
We got up at the hostel and were stuffed still. They had laid out breakfast for us, so we ate, so as not to waste food.

Julias and Beatrice picked us up at 1030am and we went to see the nursery school. It was a small 2 room school with about 25 students in K and 1st grade. The rooms were colorful, and it seemed that they were doing what all kids that age would do in America. Beatrice runs the school, and there were 2 teachers. She feeds them 2 meals, to ensure they get something to eat, because its not clear whether the parents have enough to feed them properly.

From there we went to the David Sheldrick Elephant orphanage. They go into the wild and find baby elephants who's parents have been poached (and try to break the snares from poachers). There we're about 10 there, and it was quite interesting to see. They bring them out for the public to see for 1 hour a day. Also, the workers sleep with the elephants, so they can be fed every 3 hours, and kept covered, so they don't catch pnemonia. Pretty amazing. The caretakers are definately treated like mothers by the elephants.

They also had a baby rhino...crazy little guy, definately ran all oveer the place! He was 6 months old.

Also, there was a 6 year old rhino too. Whenever there are no people, they allow that rhino to roam back into the wild (the orphanage is in Niarobi national park). He always seems to come back after a while, since he was raised there (and gets food easily).

J and B had never been, so it was an experience that they enjoyed with us.

We went to the giraffe center after that where they are breeding Rothchild giraffes, which is one type. It was fun, we fed the giraffes...anna and karen did a giraffe kiss...I didn't...haha

We stopped at a gas station/fast food place to eat...pizza inn and galito's chicken. We had bean salad which had 5 beans in it, veggie pizza, and peri peri (hot hot) chips (fries)...quite good!

From there we went into NBO...lots of traffic, very vibrant...people all over...just like a busy city anywhere!

We passed through a lot of the city including the "embassy row"...a very nice area...both the buildings themselves, and the houses...very wealthy folks lived there. We went to the "village market"...in the parking lot they had a craft bazaar, very fun...we bargained a lot. J and B helped us, which was great. My best was 3500 to 1100 shillings!
Inside the "market" was a mall on par with anything in the US! Apparently, indians in kenya had invested a lot into this mall. It was filled with ex-pats, and the rich. There also seemed to be folks who probably shouldn't shop there...but as in the US...used credit cards to buy stuff...and rack up debt...

From here we went to the orphanage and Church, which are together (with the school). The church was a solid building, but nothing fancy of course. J told us of the plans for building it into a community center, with guest rooms. J told us that the best part of the church is that some people have used it to clean un their lives and be productive members of society. Also, they want to make a bigger facility for the children, so they could handle 50, and have some workshops, for them to learn trades. Plans are there, but they are looking for $ of course. The orphanage has a open center area with about 6 rooms around it. There is a dining/study area, 3-4 rooms with bunk beds/lockers for the kids, one room for Nancy (she works there full time), and a storage area. J told us that it costs about $1k/mo, but it wasn't clear where the funds come from. They manage, is what he told us.

J and B had us to their home to eat dinner. It was in a village across the main road, about 1km away. They live in a nice little ranch house...not rich, but not poor either. They have 4 kids, and have adopted another...pretty amazing, considering all else that they do! All the kids were very nice, that we met. The oldest is in Boston studying. Faith, the 3rd oldest has downs syndrome and is growing up well. Jane, the 2nd oldest is adopted and in school to be a teacher. Ester was very nice, and she's the 2nd youngest...we didn't get to talk to her much, but she's in the 8th grade. Baraka is the youngest, 8, and the most energetic. She's a sweet kid who spends a lot of her time with the orphange kids.

They gave us a regular meal for them...chappati's (like big roti/bakri), mashed potatoes/greens/corn, and a mixed veggies dish, highlited by spinach. The veggies were mostly gorwn in their garden! They also made a special fish dish for us. It was delicious food, and they were so nice to make it for us.
J and B are truly amazing people. They raise their kids and the kids in the orphange as the same. The run a church, and the nursery school, and share all that they have.
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On to Kikuyu!

Got up/breakfast and off to Lake Naivasha, after short game drive. We saw lots of monkeys, and I finally got pictures. Lake Naivasha is known for hippos, so we did a hippo safari, which is a boat ride on the lake. We saw hippos (families) and birds swoop down and take fish from water. It was quite a sight. The hippos were funny, sometimes they seemed put their heads on each other and sleep! Interesting tidebit, the animals on Cresent island (in the lake) are not native. They were left there after the filming of Out of Africa. Crazy.

We got to Kikuyu, which is a suburb of Nairobi. It looks very silmilar to the outskirts of bombay. We met Julias and Beatrice who were so welcoming, it was very nice. They took us to the presbytarian guest house which is a rehab hostel for orthopedic patients. Its a part of a hospital campus which is very nice. They have nice gardens. Many medical personnel are around. The staff is very friendly, and the cost is around $30 a day with meals.

We rested and the J and B took us to a restaurant called Carnivore, which is similar to fago de chao in america. The food was great, and we ate way to much. Luckily, we didn't do the whole skewer thing, we just ordered from the menu. The chicken was good, as was the spinach that we got on the side. During dinner we learned about operation of the orphange and how J and B do it. They manage with what they have and the kids seem to be ok. They get three meals a day, and are able to go to school. We also learned about a carjacking that beatrice was involved in. Luckily she was not hurt, the police managed to find them and get her out unharmed. They got the car back too. They used the cell phone signal to find them! We shared stories about us too, and it was a very nice meal...we were stuffed!



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Evening at Lake Nakuru and Random Thoughts

7/1/09
So we got back to the camp and relaxed for a while before dinner...and
then there was a rain storm with huge drops!! It was neat to watch.
While this was happeneing, they came around with hot water bottles to
put in the bed. It was nice!

We had a nice dinner. We decided that the food/service/ambiance was
better here than at the sopa lodge. Still nothing particularly local,
but good food.

We had long conversation about business and technology controlling the
way we live. It boiled down to the fact that we need to balance needs
and wants, and we agreed in general that we Americans percieve many
wants as needs. In doing so the impact to the rest of the world is
tremendous. Its good and bad...sharing of ideas, increasing people's
education, improved quality of life, but also increased pollution,
increased desirements, losing of cultural values...

Night in the tent was neat. Lots of bugs around, but the off worked
well. Lots of animal noises at night...nothing very close to worry
about. The camp is separated from the part but a wire fence, not too
strong. It was odd hearing so many birds, then barking, rooster
crowing, and horns from the city all together!

I had a bad dream, and woke up to pitch black. I waited a few
minutes, but couldn't even see my hands in front my of face. I got a
bit scared and turned on the phone, and was relieved to be able to see
just fine. Odd situaiton, I can't remember it ever being that dark.

Ok, so here are some random thoughts, in no particular order:

1) I don't think I've ever had finer accomdations outside of people's
house than the past three nights. Dar was nice, but a regular hotel.
Amazing that I come to Africa for this.

2) Everything is similar to what I remember in India. Cities, towns,
rural area, landscape...

3) We haven't seen any castles or forts. Its a tribal/migrant
history, so there wouldn't be any...its different than all other
travels.

4) What an end to a crazy month for me...I needed this break...

5) I haven't seen any truly extreme poverty. Everyone so far would
fair ok on Yunas's 16 point scale...access to water, education,
sustaining income, home with a tin roof. Maybe not everyone, but a
large proportion. This comment is probably becuase I expected more,
and also because they don't take us to the extremely poor area. I
don't to visitors in the US.

6) I'm glad we chose this safari, we have seen everything we could
want. The big five, the migration, the masai...

7) Everything here has been amazing...I know its been the good life so
far, might not be the same with Julias at the orphanage.

8) Tasted 3 beers...Tusker, Pilsner, and White Cap. All are simlar.
Relatively light in color and taste...a bit sweet.

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Going to Lake Nakuru

7/1/09
Our adventure in the Masai Mara came to an end, and we went on our way
to Lake Nakuru national park. Overall, the impression that the Mara
left was that its an incredible space on Earth. Its an unforgettable
experience to be able to witness nature in action. While we see it in
our daily lives, the nature seen here is relatively unadulterated by
human beings. Yes, there are cars moving about with safari goers, but
compared to our lives in the urban US, its minimal impact.

We stopped at a gift shop, where I bought a rosewood bowl and a cloth
picture for $60...probably too much, but bargained down from $160, so
I felt I did ok!

On the way to lake nakuru, was passed through some wonderful
countryside, reached an altitude of 2784m (8000+ ft). The towns and
countryside reminded me of what I would saw in India as we drove
around. Lots of activity, even though the towns looked run down.
Cell phones galore.

Reminds me, we learned about cell phones have been revolutionary here
for commerce. People can get banking services via their phone.
Essentially the cell phone company has agents all over who act like
small banks. People can deposit and withdraw cash. More importanly,
using this account they can pay bills and each other via their phone!
Its so much more secure than cash transactions, and allow access to
many more markets!

Lake Nakuru (LN) is near the town of Nakuru which is a small city. I
definately felt like we were much closer to "civilization" as I am
used to. The national park is only about 5km outside of the town
centre. We drove in, and up to our "camp," which was more like a
resort. The "tents" were really just covers for a hotel room,
complete with 3 beds, and a full bathroom! the tents top had a tiki
roof top, which as quite nice. Definately not roughing it!

We rested a little, had a nice lunch, and then went off for the game
drive. LN is famous for the birds that can be seen there, most
importantly the sea of flamingos! It was amazing to see huge patches
of pink on the lake. We got out of the van and walked around (we
never get out around other animlas). The scene was truly amazing.
While walking, I managed to step in "it"...so that was uncomftable for
a while, given I only have flip flops on! remember, my shoes were
stolen, so I only have flip flops for the trip.

We also saw storks, baboons, zebras, rhinos (one sleep and others from
far), and a familty of giraffes, very close. It was awesome! We went
up to a place called baboon lookout point, where we got an aerial view
of the lake...truly magnificent!

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Friday, July 03, 2009

Masai Mara Day 2

June 30, 2009
Today we started the game drive at 630am...what a game drive it was!
We saw many lions, some just posing and relaxing, others devouring a
dead wildebeest. There was another killed wildebeest nearby, but the
lions were too full to eat it! At the same time, we saw part of the
wildebeest migration. Thousands of WB's come up from the Serengeti
after the rainy season there. This year the rains ended early, so
they were getting to Mara early. Its incredible to see all of the
animals moving along together in lines...similar to birds flying
south, but way more impressive!

Amazingly, the lions were eating the WB not far from where the
migration was happening, amazing!

So while it seems that it would be gross, it wasn't. I guess it just
seemed natural, and the lions were calmly eating...they weren't going
crazy. We did notice that Karen enjoyed seeing this by far the
most...hmmm.

So all this, and we were back for breakfast at 9. After breakfast
(good food, typical breakfast fare), we went to the masai village to
learn about them. They hold on to their way of life from thousands of
years ago, with some alterations, but not many. We were greeted by
the chief's soon, who brought his group of men out to meet us. He
told us some history, and led us in. The men did a simliar dance to
welcome us, as the night before. The area was quite dirty, and we
were struck by the number of flies around, mainly because there was
cow dung everywhere. That being the case, the children and adults did
not seem malnourished or sick. They showed us their huts (sticks,
strw roof, with cow dung cement). It was quite an experience to see.
The hut was more spacious than expected. It housed a section for
kids, adults, grandmom/dad, a kitchen, area for baby cows, and
kittens. Very dark, but we got used to it. Seemed much cleaner than
outside.

The men either go to school, or are trained to defend the village/take
care of animlas. The women cook, clean, take care of kids, and build
the houses. Didn't seem like the men did much, because there is not
immenent threat. The girls get educated too, and married of at 17 or
so. They are either bought for 7 cows, traded for a sister, or go to
the highest jumper, per the previous discussion, about the dance.
Interesting that men have to give dowry for the women, not the other
way. The men are married at 25.

Most of the children (girls, and boys who aren't farming) go to school
through the 8th grade at least. We saw a nice solidly built school
with lots of student (too few teachers). The students were excited to
see us, and well behaved.

We believe that most of the men now go work in the towns around their
village, but they didn't tell us this.

So by this time, we had seen/done a lot (walked back to the lodge from
village), so we ate, rested, and read by the pool.

After lunch, we went for another drive. We saw 4 cheetah's eating a
dead gazelle, with vultures all around. They were standing at
attention (or so it seemed) waiting their turn, it was amazing! We
saw more zebras, wildebeests, ostriches, and other small birds.

Then it started to rain...as we drove back, we found that the animals
stood perfectly still in the rain. It was very interesting, and
pretty universal, very few moved eveb a little. Also, the gutters
that were bone dry in the am, were now little fast moving streams!

We got back, had a nice dinner, and releaxed. I hag tried a tusker
beer in the afternoon, so I had pilsner this time. Both were good, a
little sweet.

Later, Karen and Anna did a great job of helping me learn about our
education system. We had some great discussion, and I got a chace to
learn about some of the problems. The biggest issue Karen had was
class size for her students, its hard to give individual attention to
younger students, who probably need it the most. Also, in poorer
communities, its needs to be a wider approach than just school.
Education/social support is needed for abuse, lack of health care,
basic food needs...its a bigger problem than just schools.

Anna was bothered by the amount of required classes that high school
students have. There is very little room for electives, and learning
something you want to learn. In the hunt to improve test scores, we
are making less well rounded students, or forcing them to get burnt
out.

We also discussed matrurity of students, and them learning to interact
with adults and the business world.

On 7/2/09, Mitesh Parikh <mmparikh79@gmail.com> wrote:
> June 29th
> We had a 530am flight to Nairobi, so we were up and out to the airport
> very early. We had some breakfast at the airport...notably Karen
> enjoyed roasted chicken and fries at 330am! The flight was nice, we
> actually had the former president of Tanzania aboard, kinda crazy. Of
> course, he had plenty of security getting on and off.
>
> Nairobi was beautiful driving in. Great landscape and clear air going
> into city. We did hit a big traffic jam, and sat in smog of cars as
> we got closer to the city. Evebtually we got to the safari office,
> and were on our way. Our guide, David, was quite nice, and we had a
> late, but promising start. As we drove, I was struck by how
> everything was similar to India. City, small towns, countryside, it
> all was how india was in 2000, last time I went.
>
> As we drove to the Mara, we saw many Masai people along the way. They
> were dressed in the bright red scarves of the pictures we seen. Many
> had their ears stretched and pierced. We later learned that those
> with the pierced ears helped with the herding and catlle raising,
> while boys who were to be educated head their two front teeth (lower)
> pulled out.
>
> Another thing, parts of the road were extremely rocky! We got used to
> being jostled around as soon as we got out of the city. If you have
> back problesm, be very careful on safari.
>
> We got to the park and lodge about 2pm. The Mara Sopa lodge was
> incredibly beautiful. The room, the view, the pool, dining area, main
> lodge, gardens...all were spectacular.
>
> I thought about the rapid change from relative poverty to the richness
> of the lodge we just experienced. As in the past, I'm always reminded
> that wealth does not equal happiness. So many of the people we passed
> were poor, but most seemed content. The balance between the need of
> "stuff" and being happy is difficult, but poor here seem to be ok with
> their basic needs being met. This doesn't mean we shouldn't share,
> only that we should think about what we are doing, and truly need.
>
> Also, along this trip, I've been reading Yunas's book, creating a
> world without poverty. He talks about the huge percentage of the
> world that lives on less than $1 a day. While the numbers are
> truthful, the meaning isn't quite clear. He doesn't account for the
> difference in standard of living. When you don't need much, money
> isn't important. Its not important, the poverty is still there, and
> help is needed. The only point is that we have to be careful of not
> ruining poeples happiness as we help.
>
> Ok...sorry for the digression, back to the safari...so after a very
> nice lunch, we got onto our first game ride...at 4pm. AMAZING! We
> saw impalas (with many wives!), topis, giraffes, a leopard in the
> bushes, cheetahs, elephants, wildebeests, water buffalos, ostriches,
> and other small animals. The scenary was great, and seeing the
> animals in their natural habitat was awesome! They did not bother us
> or the other safari goers, which was neat. Also, we had a very lucky
> start...some people, see no animals at all during a safari, we saw so
> many on our first game drive.
>
> We wnet back to the lodge a few hours later, and had a nice dinner.
> The food was buffet style, and they had a variety, with a lot of
> indian food. I had a drink called dawa, which was vodka, lemon, and
> honey, quite good!
>
> After dinner there was a masai cultural dance which was quite
> interesting. About 10 men chant and skipped around (similar to simple
> garba), and they lined up and jumped up and down, one at a time. They
> got really high! We later learned that this is a traditional dance,
> and the highest jumper gets a "free" wife (he doesn't have to trade a
> sister or cows...seriously).
>
> At night we walked around the grounds a bit and found ourselves a bit
> out of breath after stairs...we decided to" blame it on the
> ah..aaha..alta...altitude!". We were about 1 mile up.
>
> So ended our first day on safari!
>
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Thursday, July 02, 2009

Heading to NBO and Masai Mara

June 29th
We had a 530am flight to Nairobi, so we were up and out to the airport
very early. We had some breakfast at the airport...notably Karen
enjoyed roasted chicken and fries at 330am! The flight was nice, we
actually had the former president of Tanzania aboard, kinda crazy. Of
course, he had plenty of security getting on and off.

Nairobi was beautiful driving in. Great landscape and clear air going
into city. We did hit a big traffic jam, and sat in smog of cars as
we got closer to the city. Evebtually we got to the safari office,
and were on our way. Our guide, David, was quite nice, and we had a
late, but promising start. As we drove, I was struck by how
everything was similar to India. City, small towns, countryside, it
all was how india was in 2000, last time I went.

As we drove to the Mara, we saw many Masai people along the way. They
were dressed in the bright red scarves of the pictures we seen. Many
had their ears stretched and pierced. We later learned that those
with the pierced ears helped with the herding and catlle raising,
while boys who were to be educated head their two front teeth (lower)
pulled out.

Another thing, parts of the road were extremely rocky! We got used to
being jostled around as soon as we got out of the city. If you have
back problesm, be very careful on safari.

We got to the park and lodge about 2pm. The Mara Sopa lodge was
incredibly beautiful. The room, the view, the pool, dining area, main
lodge, gardens...all were spectacular.

I thought about the rapid change from relative poverty to the richness
of the lodge we just experienced. As in the past, I'm always reminded
that wealth does not equal happiness. So many of the people we passed
were poor, but most seemed content. The balance between the need of
"stuff" and being happy is difficult, but poor here seem to be ok with
their basic needs being met. This doesn't mean we shouldn't share,
only that we should think about what we are doing, and truly need.

Also, along this trip, I've been reading Yunas's book, creating a
world without poverty. He talks about the huge percentage of the
world that lives on less than $1 a day. While the numbers are
truthful, the meaning isn't quite clear. He doesn't account for the
difference in standard of living. When you don't need much, money
isn't important. Its not important, the poverty is still there, and
help is needed. The only point is that we have to be careful of not
ruining poeples happiness as we help.

Ok...sorry for the digression, back to the safari...so after a very
nice lunch, we got onto our first game ride...at 4pm. AMAZING! We
saw impalas (with many wives!), topis, giraffes, a leopard in the
bushes, cheetahs, elephants, wildebeests, water buffalos, ostriches,
and other small animals. The scenary was great, and seeing the
animals in their natural habitat was awesome! They did not bother us
or the other safari goers, which was neat. Also, we had a very lucky
start...some people, see no animals at all during a safari, we saw so
many on our first game drive.

We wnet back to the lodge a few hours later, and had a nice dinner.
The food was buffet style, and they had a variety, with a lot of
indian food. I had a drink called dawa, which was vodka, lemon, and
honey, quite good!

After dinner there was a masai cultural dance which was quite
interesting. About 10 men chant and skipped around (similar to simple
garba), and they lined up and jumped up and down, one at a time. They
got really high! We later learned that this is a traditional dance,
and the highest jumper gets a "free" wife (he doesn't have to trade a
sister or cows...seriously).

At night we walked around the grounds a bit and found ourselves a bit
out of breath after stairs...we decided to" blame it on the
ah..aaha..alta...altitude!". We were about 1 mile up.

So ended our first day on safari!

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Heading to NBO and Masai Mara

June 29th
We had a 530am flight to Nairobi, so we were up and out to the airport
very early. We had some breakfast at the airport...notably Karen
enjoyed roasted chicken and fries at 330am! The flight was nice, we
actually had the former president of Tanzania aboard, kinda crazy. Of
course, he had plenty of security getting on and off.

Nairobi was beautiful driving in. Great landscape and clear air going
into city. We did hit a big traffic jam, and sat in smog of cars as
we got closer to the city. Evebtually we got to the safari office,
and were on our way. Our guide, David, was quite nice, and we had a
late, but promising start. As we drove, I was struck by how
everything was similar to India. City, small towns, countryside, it
all was how india was in 2000, last time I went.

As we drove to the Mara, we saw many Masai people along the way. They
were dressed in the bright red scarves of the pictures we seen. Many
had their ears stretched and pierced. We later learned that those
with the pierced ears helped with the herding and catlle raising,
while boys who were to be educated head their two front teeth (lower)
pulled out.

Another thing, parts of the road were extremely rocky! We got used to
being jostled around as soon as we got out of the city. If you have
back problesm, be very careful on safari.

We got to the park and lodge about 2pm. The Mara Sopa lodge was
incredibly beautiful. The room, the view, the pool, dining area, main
lodge, gardens...all were spectacular.

I thought about the rapid change from relative poverty to the richness
of the lodge we just experienced. As in the past, I'm always reminded
that wealth does not equal happiness. So many of the people we passed
were poor, but most seemed content. The balance between the need of
"stuff" and being happy is difficult, but poor here seem to be ok with
their basic needs being met. This doesn't mean we shouldn't share,
only that we should think about what we are doing, and truly need.

Also, along this trip, I've been reading Yunas's book, creating a
world without poverty. He talks about the huge percentage of the
world that lives on less than $1 a day. While the numbers are
truthful, the meaning isn't quite clear. He doesn't account for the
difference in standard of living. When you don't need much, money
isn't important. Its not important, the poverty is still there, and
help is needed. The only point is that we have to be careful of not
ruining poeples happiness as we help.

Ok...sorry for the digression, back to the safari...so after a very
nice lunch, we got onto our first game ride...at 4pm. AMAZING! We
saw impalas (with many wives!), topis, giraffes, a leopard in the
bushes, cheetahs, elephants, wildebeests, water buffalos, ostriches,
and other small animals. The scenary was great, and seeing the
animals in their natural habitat was awesome! They did not bother us
or the other safari goers, which was neat. Also, we had a very lucky
start...some people, see no animals at all during a safari, we saw so
many on our first game drive.

We wnet back to the lodge a few hours later, and had a nice dinner.
The food was buffet style, and they had a variety, with a lot of
indian food. I had a drink called dawa, which was vodka, lemon, and
honey, quite good!

After dinner there was a masai cultural dance which was quite
interesting. About 10 men chant and skipped around (similar to simple
garba), and they lined up and jumped up and down, one at a time. They
got really high! We later learned that this is a traditional dance,
and the highest jumper gets a "free" wife (he doesn't have to trade a
sister or cows...seriously).

At night we walked around the grounds a bit and found ourselves a bit
out of breath after stairs...we decided to" blame it on the
ah..aaha..alta...altitude!". We were about 1 mile up.

So ended our first day on safari!

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Wednesday, July 01, 2009

Flamingo Hill Camp

Hi all,
Sorry for the delay, but the internet enabled phone wouldn't get
internet in the masai! Now I'm sitting in a large "tiki" tent like
structure which is the office/lobby area for the camp. There's a
waterfall off to the right and beautiful african art around. The
lodge in masai and the camp here have been magnificent, nicest
accomdations I've ever had. The lodge had a very nice main area, with
a great pool, dining area, and a large fireplace. The rooms were
essebtially these small cottages with very nice decorations. The
"camp" is quite luxurious...our "tent" is really a stone structure
that is covered with tent material with a large tiki roof on top of
that. There's a full bathroom in the "tent" too! Decorations, and
furniture are also quite beautiful! So roughing it we are not...well
Anna did have some trouble with the showers at the lodge, not getting
hot water (karen and I had no issues!)...and karen had the shower head
fall on her..."Its okay, its like showering under a fire hydrant with
hot water"...and I definately "stepped in it" when viewing the
flamingos...so we are roughing it a bit!

Ok, well I guess this doesn't make sense, because I have skipped so
many happenings, so here goes....rewind:

Sunday June 28th
In DAR, We had lunch at the rooftop restaurant, Swadasee, which was
thai. Both families came together again, this time on the Thakkar's.
The food was good, and we had fun...the best part was the "music".
Since we were on the ninth floop, the howlong wind could be heard
whistling by the windows. Many thought it was a thai cultural
soundtrack! The views of the city were quite nice from there.

We said our goodbyes to everyone as people were leaving at different
times. It was a nice way to end a great family affair.

From here we went off to slipway, which is a waterfront area with
restaurants/shops/local market. I got to see Oyster bay and the
families coming out for a relaxing sunday. We got some souvenoirs.
On the way back, we stopped by Rikeen's mom's childhood house in the
city, that was neat to see. There are many old buildings that the
Indians made, and some still live in. This one dated back to 1940 or
so.

So in the evening, Nirav's parents treated us to pizza by the pool.
It was very nice...funny thing was the large pizzas were like 12in
wide. We in America really do oversize everything!! :)

Ok, this is a long post, so I will start with the safari in the next
one! Cheers for now, its breakfast time!

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Sunday, June 28, 2009

Looking at the Ocean In The Morning

Its 1130 am on Sunday June 27th here in Dar E Salaam. I'm sitting in my 4th floor hotel room looking out over the harbor, there's a church service going on across the street, and the backdrop is beautiful water, with palm trees blowing in the wind. There's a working harbor in the distance, so the ships come and go into the docking stations.

The last few days have been amazing. On Friday, we had religious ceremonies for Nirav and Niki. It was poolside in the hotel...it was hot! ;) The chairs shifted as the sun put more of the patio in it's view. Then we had a nice lunch, and it was time to relax for a while. Anna and I walked around the city some, and it very much reminded me of India. Lots of hustle and bustle in the streets, as vibrant life is all around. Unfortunately, I still didn't know where my bag was, but the agents at the airport were looking into it. At that point, I didn't terribly mind, since I had enough clothes for the night and the wedding. The biggest loss of the bag would be the stuff I brought for the orphanage.

As it got later in the day, we got ready and went to the Hawaii Party throw by Niki's brother in law's family...what an AMAZING sight! We pulled up to a house...no a compound, actually we went through the gates, down a long drive, and come up to a house...got out, walked around back to see a Magnificent backyard...Steps lead down to a huge pool theat curves and leads you down a path to the ocean! Palm trees lined the sides of the walkway, and tiki torches lit the way! There was a DJ booth up on stage above the pool, with the bar nearby, and speakers put everywhere, so all could hear the music. Tables setup around the pool, stretching all the way back to the end of the pool, where multiple stations were setup for food. Beyond that lay the path to the beachhouse, and the water, shimmering in the moonlite. A wonderful atmosphere for a wonderful occasion. We ate, chatted, drank, swayed to the music, and then were asked to sit down...the show was to begin! It started with a gong, and fire breathing man...drums beat, and men and women came running out for the african dance show. 3 shows, of dance, acrobatics, and sheer beauty!

We danced late into the night...and we'll never forget the drum getting knocked into the pool, the flower bouquet toss...times two, because the first one went into the pool...the michael jackson tribute, Nirav going up to sing snoop...then him and I singing coolio...the food, the drinks, the weather, the place...phenomenal...

So Saturday came...I got up early, went tot he airport, to find that my bag was going to be delivered that night...so we relaxed, woke up slowly (really, I went back to "sleep"), went to Emporio to eat some nice turkish/medditerian food...came back and got ready for the wedding! The wedding was set in the Patel Samaj, which was a big ground and mandir setup for events. The mandap was beautful...but paled compared to the bride. Amazingly, though the place was not the norm, the feelings were, the ceremonies were great. I did manage to get my jhubo messed up a little while hiding the shoes...We laughed, cried, ate (of course), and enjoyed the ceremony...

When I came home...low and behold, my bag was being delievered! I got it...opened the first zippered area...and my shoes had been stolen! I was mad, but of course, who could I be mad at...I may make the claim with KLM at some point, but for now, I'm happy that I got the stuff back. The shoes...well, I hope that someone who took them uses them, and needs them more than I...

Okay...well it's almost time for lunch, and...the trees are swaying, the water's moving gently...
TIA...This is Africa...